Renewing the erotic relation: Michel Henry and the lover's night

This paper engages in a critical examination of Michel Henry's (1922-2002) phenomenological study of the erotic relation. I argue that while Henry's analysis sheds light on the nature of eros and how it might be renewed from the obscene objectivism to which it has largely been reduced in Western society today, his analysis of eros undermines his account of the phenomenological life of the subject as a radically immanent mode of appearing and calls for revision. I contend that it is by acknowledging life as a movement of transcendence toward the world that we can resolve this issue and further refine Henry's insights into the nature of eros and how it might once again be renewed in contemporary Western civilization. I begin by laying out Henry's account of how the forgetting of life results in a reduction of the erotic (i.e., inter-subjective) relation to a merely sexual (i.e., inter-objective) one, and how this lays the groundwork for what he regards as the destructive sadomasochistic practices of voyeurism and pornography. Following this, I outline Henry's account of the nature and limits of the erotic relation, and I demonstrate how Henry's work harbours the latent suggestion that the failure of eros can serve as a step toward a higher union with others in a love of God. In the closing section, I show how Henry's analysis of the erotic relation calls for a re-conception of life as a movement of transcendence. I outline how this re-conception better accounts for the complex exchanges between the non-objectifying drives of life and the objectifying acts of consciousness, and I show how this allows us to retain some of Henry's insights into eros and its renewal while forcing us to modify others.